the best book on anti-racist parenting i have ever read
This book was deeply moving. made me shiver. It goes so far beyond "won't our kids just get along" to some of the awful, deeply challenging questions that I see us all encountering every day, and that have no easy answers. There are horror stories, including a mother whose son was treated badly while he was under anesthesia because of his race...and stories of brilliant comebacks...it's a road map to doing "the work" while raising kids, and all the mess and sorrow and joy that entails.
You can buy it anywhere, including here.